Essays

A collection of reflective essays on identity, resilience, culture and the quiet moments that shape our lives.

New essay published every Sunday.

Whatever Happened to the Phone Call?

A reflection on phone calls, voice notes and why hearing someone’s voice still matters in a world full of messages.

Whatever Happened to the Phone Call?

Murder on the Allotment Has More Growing Beneath the Surface

A review of Murder on the Allotment, a funny and moving musical about prejudice, belonging and unexpected human connection. A small musical with some very big things to say. Kay reflects on Murder on the Allotment, a funny, provocative and unexpecte

Murder on the Allotment Has More Growing Beneath the Surface

Ted Lasso and the Quiet Rebellion of Kindness

A reflection on Ted Lasso, kindness, listening and why softness can be one of the strongest things we choose.

Ted Lasso and the Quiet Rebellion of Kindness

The People Who Clap When The Plane Lands

A reflection on relief, connection and the quiet rituals that remind us we're human.

The People Who Clap When The Plane Lands

Topics explored here include identity, grief, healing,

self-worth, resilience and the quiet work of personal growth.